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2月28日

Hi

Hi!
I'm still here I just don't know what to write about......
I've started to write an entry about hundred times, because I have things to say.....No really I do!
They just  won't come out.
 
~sigh~
Yes I have been popping into other spaces to see what's going on, and being a bad, bad girl by not leaving comments.....But (oiy! Un-intetional pun!) fiber doesn't work on brain-clogs.
2月26日

GRRRRR BLARG.......

Were the first and only words Tessa said to me this morning.
I don't know what they mean, but some how they just seem to fit this rainy Monday morning....
I hope everyone has a great week!
(((Hugs)))
Cindy
 
It is no longer a rainy Monday, it is a SNOWY Monday....GRRRRR BLARRRRRG!
2月25日

I forgot..

To add this to yesterdays entry.
When I went up to the store yesterday I ran into one of the cashiers, I'm friendly with a few of them I go in there almost daily so they all say "Hi, how are you?"
Well this one is just a young girl that graduated high school last year, and when ever I see her she up dates me one how her life is, she's having a bit of a rough go because she is caring for her very ill boyfriend and working, the whole bit, from the sounds of it she really doesn't have any family, so if she wants to unload once in a while fine with me.
Well anyway as we were chatting I asked if she knew anyone that needed a sitter, (I have no shame! I will find a way to put that question into any convertation.)
Well she tells me that she does know that one of the customer sevice desk clerks is having problems with her current babysitter....(ie) The babysitter is using the juice and diapers the mother sends with her child, for her own (the babysitters') child, on top of charging an arm and a leg!
So I gave my information to the girl to pass on, and hopfully I will know if I have a job some time this week
Keep your fingers crossed for me!
Some people think I'm crazy for not charging all that much to watch kids....
And believe me with some of the ones I've looked after I think so too!..LOL!
But there are a few reasons I charge the bare minimum:
1. I know the daycare nightmare I lived it when Tessa was little.
It is so hard to find decant childcare at a decant price, and if you happen to work shift work or your kid is the least bit hyper, well then you can pretty much forget about finding anything!.
And 2. I'm not greedy, I don't need that much extra to get by comfortablely.
Quite honestly, I don't find looking after little ones all that much work, I mean really what's so hard?
When they are hyper or bored. you pull them off the curtain rod (that they have climbed for the 3rd time because there was nothing better to do.) and take them to the park, swimming pool or whatever....Not really a hardship in my mind.
I know the last batch of kids I looked after were a handful, but really I had more of a problem with the parents then I did the kids.
And since this one I'm hoping to look after is only 2 and half there shouldn't be all that many issues.
So again fingers crossed!
(((Hugs)))
Cindy
~p.s.~ Watch the videos I have on here (very funny) they are from the same concert held just a week ago in New Jersey NY. No I didn't go...LOL!
But you just have to love YouTube!
2月24日

It must be true

I have been called heartless twice in two days, so it must be true.
The first time was yesterday, I was going to watch one of  my neighbour's little boy. I've watched him before but not for a while so when they got here he pitched a fit....A real good one at that too!
Any way instead of giving him a hug and a kiss and letting him know that she will be back soon, the Mother sits with him and cuddles him and says, "I'm not leaving until you calm down."
Can you BELIEVE that! Like the kid is EVER going to calm down now!
Let me tell you I just about drew blood I was biting my tongue so hard.
I did say, "Just go, I can handle some crying."
The Mother says, "Oh I can't do that, he will throw up."
I said, "Yeah so? I have cleaning supplies."
And that's when I got called heartless......Well I guess she won't be asking me to babysit again since I'm just so cold, now will she?
Then there was a little earlier today....
A friend of mine had tried to call me all day today.......my ringer was off.....(Ooops! My bad!)
She was so desperate to talk to me and I wasn't answering that she was going to call a crisis line....
The reason for the melt down?
She didn't know how to tell someone that offered  her a job, that she couldn't accept the job, even though the reason she couldn't take the job is completely valid.
Now I have to tell you I honestly thought she was going to tell me that the results of the medical tests she had a couple of weeks ago were bad, (very thing is fine that way) by the panicked messages she left me.
No all this drama was because she couldn't tell some one she had allergies....
So I tell her that she is over reacting and that she needs to stop and think about what is best for her and her health and stop worrying about hurt some one's feelings, especially when she's not and that her indecision is waisting the other person's time.
After that is when she called me cold and heartless, just because I didn't see (and still don't) the emotional problem she was having?
Maybe I am coming a cross as cold to her, because I'm not jumping into pick up the pieces for her anymore.....I'm having a hard enough time keeping my life together, never mind trying to solve her problems as well.
I should add here that I'm not sad, hurt or otherwise offended that these people or anyone else for that matter, thinks I'm heartless.
In both these situations I believe I was a realist.
I hope everyone has a great Sunday!
(((Hugs)))
Cindy

Found on and Shamlessly taken from Vallerie's site

Forty Things You Could Probably Live Without Knowing 

1) What side of the heart do you draw first?

Left 

2) Can you dive without plugging your nose?

Yes  

3) What color is your razor?

Purple  

4) What is your blood-type?

O Positive   

5) Who would you want to be tied to for 24 hours?

 RS.....Well DUH! Did you even have moments dout about that one? 

7) How do you feel about carrots?

I like them, cooked, raw, any wich way, they are good for you.   

8) How many chairs at the dining room table?

Four.. But only 3 match. 

9) Which is the best Spice Girl?

There isn't one 

10) Do you know what time it is?

6:53 am  

12) What would you do if you were stuck in an elevator? 

Hope I had a book with me 

13) What's your favorite kind of gum? 

I don't really like gum 

14) T or F: All's fair in love and war?

It depends. 

 

15) Do you have a crush on anyone?

Other than my answer to #5 no I don't. 

 

16) Do you use words that you don't know the meaning to?

No

17) Do you like to sleep?

 Yes... but I never seem to get enough

18) Do you know which US states don't use Daylight Savings?

Nope

 

19) Do you know the song Total Eclipse of the Heart?

Yes

20) Do you want a bright yellow '06 mustang?

Nope 

21) What's something you've always wanted?

Not to stress about money 

22) Do you have hairy legs?

Nope 

23) What does "Semper Fidelis" stand for?

Always Faithful 

24) Would you rather swim in the ocean or a lake?

I will swim anytime, pretty much anywhere I love the water. 

25) Do you wear a lot of black?

  I used to, not so much any more 

26) Describe your hair?

Very curly brown with a good amount of grey mixed in 

27) Do you have Entomophobia? 

YES, big time  and yes I had to look it up..lol!

28) Are you an adult? 

Yes, DANM IT! 

29) Who is/are your best friend(s)?

My daughter, Rick (my ex) and April 

30) Do you have a tan? 

I used too very well now I stay out of the sun. 

31) Are you a television addict?

There are a few dramas I never miss, but otherwise I have music on.. 

32) Do you enjoy spending time with your mother?

Sometimes 

33) Are you a sugar freak?

Not really 

34) Do you like orange juice? 

I do but my ulser doesn't

35) What sign are you? 

Scorpio 

36) Where do you wish you were right now?

On my way to a RS concert 

37) Who did you copy this from?

Vallerie 

38) How do you know them?

Blogging

39) Have you kissed anyone in the past week?

 Yes

40) What are your plans for the weekend?

Other than cleaning house I have no idea

2月22日

What changed me

I spend a lot of time in my head these days, thinking of this and that and sometimes a thought hits me hard.......
 
There are many things in our lives that change us
I could go on about different moments that lead to the person that I am today, but I won't.
I'm not even going to say that the moment I gave birth to my daughter changed me.....It didn't, I was always a mother I just had to wait a little while to meet her.
 
I do believe that happy things can change you, but I can boil it down to one moment almost 9 years ago (the passing of my father) and 15 words said about me just under a year ago.
Those two things changed me like nothing else, they unfortunately wounded my soul, each in a different way, but both can never be completely healed.
 
Good night
 

Can someone tell me...

What is so hard about teaching your kids right from wrong?
I mean really!
For some time now we have been dealing with this stupid twit bullying Tessa.
When it first started Tessa didn't really stick up for herself or tell anyone because we had just moved here and she hadn't made all that many friends, and to be honest she didn't really try too either for that first year.
Well anyway when she did tell me what was going on I of course went to the school and talked with the teachers and the very useless Principal who refused to believe it wasn't Tessa's fault until I said that if he didn't do something about this twit I was going to go to the school board, that got the twit a detention and switched out of Tessa's class, and she left Tesssa alone for a while.
Nothing we ever did worked for very long because the twits parents would never come to meetings or accept phone calls.
Well when Tessa started grade 8 it started all over again, Tessa tried to deal with it on her own but that didn't work....
So again we had classes switched and letters sent home and all that useless crap.......You know the school says they have a zero tolerance policy on bulling but they really don't do much to stop it, and when told about it they (the teachers) say "Oh I haven't seen anything like that." Or "There are just too many kids." That's a load of crap!
If I can take 6 kids to a park and have them go in 6 different directions, and know where and what each one is doing, you can be aware of what's going on right under your nose in a closed classroom with no more then 20 kids in it.
Not to offend any of the teachers out there, I know there are some good ones out there, but sadly they are few and far between.
Well that leads us to today.....
This twit has started up again, and again Tessa has tried to deal with it but this time she didn't wait to me tell what was going on.
I went to the school today to have a chat with the principle AND the parents of this twit, they finally agreed to a meeting but only AFTER I threatened to charge their darling child with harassment.
As I'm trying to talk to the parents the kid is mouthing me off and being disrespectful, when she said something nasty about the way I walked Tessa just about knocked her out.....All I did was look at the parents and say, "Yeah you did a great job with that one."
The mother cried and kept saying "Oh I don't know what to do with her!" (Yeah give her to me for a week, I'll straighten her out.)
In the end I didn't get what I wanted which was to have the kid removed from the school, I will not remove Tessa because despite this twit Tessa loves her school and the friends she now has there.
But if I hear about anything else I am going to the police, I have also warned the school that if Tessa snaps and beat the crap out of this twit I will not accept her being suspended or expelled.
So we will see what happens next.
 
Later people
(((Hugs)))
Cindy

Just a little humour for today

A lesson to be learned from typing the wrong email address:

A Minneapolis couple decided to go to Florida to thaw out during a particularly icy winter. They planned to stay at the same hotel where they spent their honeymoon 20 years before.

Because of hectic schedules, it was difficult to coordinate their travel schedules. So, the husband left Minneapolis and flew to Florida on Thursday, with his wife flying down the following day.

The husband checked into the hotel, and unlike years ago, there was a computer in his room, so he decided to send an email to his wife. However, he accidentally left out one letter in her email address, and without noticing his error, sent the email.

Meanwhile...somewhere in Houston, a widow had just returned home from her husband's funeral. He was a minister who was called home to glory after suffering a heart attack. The widow decided to check her email, expecting messages from relatives and friends.
After reading the first message, she screamed and fainted.

The widow's son rushed into the room, found his mother on the floor, and they glanced up and saw the computer screen which read:

To: My Loving Wife
Date: Thursday, October 13, 2004
Subject: I have arrived!

Dearest Love:
I know you are surprised to hear from me. They have computers here now, and you are allowed to send e-mails to your loved ones.
I have just arrived and have been checked in. I see that everything has been prepared for your arrival tomorrow, and look forward to seeing you then.

Hope your journey is as uneventful as mine was.

P.S. Sure is freaking hot down here!


2月21日

Another day dawns....

Well not really, it's still very dark outside.
Just like it was yesterday when I woke Tessa up around the same time and bugged, harassed, and generally irritated her until she agreed to go out for breakfast with me.
We get going out the door and she looks at me and says, "You are just too chipper for this early in the morning."
Yes I did have a little extra bounce in my step, I was just happy to have her home!
Because Cadets and other things that are just easier to get to from my Mother's she has been staying there a lot lately, my Mother could drive her back here, but most nights she's just too tired to do it, so Tessa stays and goes to school from there...
It's not bad really homework is getting done, and I talk to her 2 or 5 times a day..lol!
But I miss having her here at home.
She's been home for the last 2 days and it has been very nice, she has Cadets tonight but I told my Mother I want her back here tonight.
Thank you everyone for the numbers, as soon as the store opens I'm going to go get the tickets.
Here are the numbers I will play:
8 (Magick)
9 (Pen)
16 (Vallerie)
23 (Darth)
36 (Tanya)
41 (Lorri)
49 (Me)
Looks good to me!
Again thanks for playing along.....
(((Hugs)))
Cindy
 

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2月19日

Monday is here

As a general rule Mondays suck for most people..
I've never noticed it being any worse then any other day of the week, I'm more likely to have a really bad Saturday then I am a bad Monday.
 
As of late because of what's going on around here (some of which I have written about and some I haven't.) My entries have been.....Shall we say? On the bitchy or whiny side. For that I apologize.
 
You know how when you see the lotto jackpots get up there into the double digits you start to dream about what you would do with all that money?
 
I was doing that today, as you know I have waaaaay too much time on my hands...lol!
I'm being completely honest here when I say;
Yes I would help out friends and family, but after that there are only one or two charities I would donate to.
I like to believe that my day to day living wouldn't change all that much, other than moving to a nicer neighbourhood and having some nicer things not much would change for me.
The nicest thing would not having to stress about money ever again.....Oh how lovely would that be?!
And yes there is one indulgence I would have, and you all know what that would be....
I would travel and see as many RS concerts as I could stand...and that's ALOT!....LOL!
 
So since I haven't had any luck what so ever with my own numbers or even quick-picks...
you guys pick okay?
Pick a number between 1 and 49 and I will play them, and see if we have any luck that way.
I hope you play along but you don't have too if you don't want too.
Have a wonderful week!
(((Hugs)))
Cindy 
2月18日

So Anyway...

After the day I had I really wanted to just disappear.....But of course I can't do that so I settled for hitting the couch and watching a scary movie....The Covenant, it was good not too scary but good.
Because I had been in a state of high temper all day, that by the time the movie was over (8pm) I was so tired I fell asleep on the couch! I DON'T do this, I just don't sleep on couch but I ended up waking up a couple hrs later and pulling my sorry ass to my bed where I promptly fell asleep again.
A deep dreamless sleep.
It was WONDERFUL! Because I had slept so soundly when I woke up I fully expected it to be like 7 am....but NO! it was only 1 am  .....ARRRRG! 
And guess what?
I'm up for the rest of the night.
 
(sigh)
As to the day I had.....
It started out alright, but very quickly went down hill from there, Because I said I would go to a play with a friend of mine and couldn't back out of it, I had to turn down a babysitting job which really ticked me off because I NEED any type of job I can get right now, but because I promised that I would go to this play and my friend had the tickets already I felt I had to go and I was pretty much OK with it.
Well anyway I was all ready to go and just waiting for my friend to come over or even just call and the time is passing, and of course she waits until the last minute to call....When I answered the phone I was in the middle of trying to figure out a problem (that I couldn't figure out.) and making up flyers to hand out....Anyone need a Nanny?
So anyway needless to say I was a little cranky...
My friend asks me why, I tell her and I don't hold back, but no where in that whole convertation do I say I'm not going to go to the play, as I'm trying to exsplain this to her, she HANGS UP on me!
GRRRRRR!
If there is one thing you DON'T do to me when I'm already a little ticked off, is hang up on me when I'm trying to exsplain something. I tell you my head almost exsploded!
Then when I phone her back she doesn't pick up her phone....At this point all I'm thinking is, "Grow the HELL up."
Finally she phones back fully exspecting me to go the play still even though we are going to be a half a hour late. Honestly when will this woman learn life doesn't work on late!
So the day was a wasted day, no play, no job thus no money.....Just because this woman can't be on time to safe her life!
I was in such a temper because I tried to calmly talk to her about this and she just wouldn't listen, she just doesn't get it!
 
<SIGH>
I NEED a RS concert fix!....but there are no Canadian dates yet.....WHAAAA!!!!!!!!!!
 
2月17日

yup

IT'S TIME TO STOP THE WORLD I WANT TO GET OFF!
2月16日

Time to be a little naughty

GET A PIECE OF PAPER AND NUMBER IT FROM (1-13)

AND NO CHEATING!

SEE THE RESULTS AT THE END OF THE TEST!

WHEN YOU SEND IT ON PUT YOUR SCORE IN THE SUBJECT BAR...


1.WHAT COLOR ARE YOUR EYES?

A. LIGHT COLOR
B. CHANGE COLORS
C. DARK


2.IF YOU WERE TO MEET UP WITH THE CRUSH OF YOUR LIFE YOU WOULD...

A. SEDUCE THEM
B. JUST CHILL
C. CHILL AND THEN SEDUCE

3.WHATS YOUR FAVORITE TYPE OF WEATHER?

A. RAIN
B. THUNDERSTORM
C. SUNNY
D. CLOUDY

4.WHATS THE BEST TYPE OF FRUIT?

A. STRAWBERRIES
B. CHERRIES
C. GRAPES
D. PEACHES
E. KIWI

5.THE BEST PART OF THE 24 HOURS IS....

A. NIGHT
B. DAY
C. AFTERNOON


6.WHATS THE BEST SEASON OF THE YEAR?

A. FALL
B. SUMMMER
C. SPRING
D. WINTER

7.HEADBOARD OR NO HEADBOARD?

a-HEADBOARD
b-NO HEADBOARD

8.WHATS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN?

A-LEO
B-VIRGO
C-SCORPIO
D-LIBRA
E-GEMINI
F-ARIES
G-CAPRICORN
H-CANCER
I-PISCES
J-AQUARIUS
K-TAURUS
L-SAGITARIUS

9.PICK A PLACE YOU WOULD HAVE SEX AT OUT OF THESE...

A. ASTRO VAN
B. ON THE ROOF TOP OF A BUILDING
C. PARK
D. AIR PLANE
E. PARENTS ROOM
F. ALL OF THE ABOVE



10.YOUR PHONE SERVICE?

A. SPRINT/CINGULAR
B. VERIZON/ US CELLULAR
C. T-MOB./NEXTEL
D. ALTEL
E. CRICKET
F. SUNCOM
G. BOOST MOB


11.PICK AN ANIMAL-
A. LION
B. LIZARD
C. SNAKE
D. MONKEY


12.PICK A TOPPING-

A. CHOCLATE SYRUP
B. HONEY
C. WHIP CREAM
D. NUTS


13.WHICH WAY?

A. UP
B. DOWN
C. SIDEWAYS


NOW THINK OF THE PERSON YOU HAVE A CRUSH ON OR A PERSON WHOSE ASS YOU JUST WANNA SMACK========= hmmmm let me think.....


***ANSWERS****
1.
A. LIGHT COLOR------ (4) POINTS
B. CHANGE COLORS- (5) POINTS
C. DARK---------------- (4) POINTS

2.
A. SEDUCE THEM--------------- (5) POINTS
B. JUST CHILL------------------- (2) POINTS
C. CHILL AND THEN SEDUCE- (4) POINTS

3.
A. RAIN--------------- (3) POINTS
B. THUNDERSTORM- (5) POINTS
C. SUNNY------------- (4) POINTS
D. CLOUDY----------- (2) POINTS

4.
A. STRAWBERRYS- (5) POINTS
B. CHERRYS-------- (4) POINTS
C. GRAPES---------- (3) POINTS
D. PEACHES-------- (4) POINTS
E. KIWI-------------- (5) POINTS

5.
A. NIGHT-------- (4) POINTS
B. DAY----------- (3) POINTS
C. AFTERNOON- (5) POINTS

6.
A. FALL-------- (3) POINTS
B. SUMMMER- (4) POINTS
C. SPRING---- (2) POINTS
D. WINTER--- (5) POINTS

7.
-HEADBOARD-------- (5) POINTS
-NO HEADBOARD-- (2) POINTS

8.
LEO---------- (5) POINTS
VIRGO------- (5) POINTS
SCORPIO--- (5) POINTS
LIBRA-------- (3) POINTS
GEMINI------ (4) POINTS
ARIES-------- (3) POINTS
CAPRICORN- (3) POINTS
CANCER------ (4) POINTS
PISCES------- (5) POINTS
AQUARIUS--- (4) POINTS
TAURUS------ (5) POINTS
SAGITARIUS- (4) POINTS

9. PICK A PLACE YOU WOULD HAVE SEX AT OUT OF THESE...

A. ASRTO VAN------------------------------ (3) POINTS
B. ON THE ROOF TOP OF A BUILDING- (4) POINTS
C. PARK------------------------------------- (2) POINTS
D. AIR PLANE------------------------------- (5) POINTS
E. PARENTS ROOM------------------------ (5) POINTS
F. ALL OF THE ABOVE-------------------- (10) POINTS

10.
A. SPRINT/CINGULAR- (5) POINTS
B. VERIZON/US CELLULAR- (4) POINTS
C. T-MOB./NEXTEL----- (3) POINTS
D. ALTEL----------------- (5) POINTS
E. CRICKET-------------- (2) POINTS
F. SUNCOM-------------- (3) POINTS
G. BOOST MOB---------- (4) POINTS

11.
A. LION------ (5) POINTS
B. LIZARD--- (3) POINTS
C. SNAKE--- (4) POINTS
D. MONKEY- (3) POINTS

12.
A. CHOCLATE SYRUP- (3) POINTS
B. HONEY--------------- (2) POINTS
C. WHIP CREAM------- (5) POINTS
D. NUTS----------------- (3) POINTS

13.
A. UP----------- (2) POINTS
B. DOWN------ (3) POINTS
C. SIDEWAYS- (5) POINTS


NOW ADD THE POINTS UP (FOR THE SLOW ONES)

SCORES!!!!!

25-34= PRIESTS SON/DAUGHTER. MIGHT AS WELL SAVE IT TILL MARRIAGE.

35-49= PRETTY FREAKY BUT THERES STILL A COUPLE OF TRICKS U CAN LEARN... FROM ME.

50+= TOTAL OUTRAGEOUS FREAK! OMG! CALL ME!!!! NO SERIOUSLY START DIALING!***

LET YOUR SCORE BE KNOWN!!!

NOW REPOST THIS IN THE NEXT 2 MINUTES
AND YOU WILL HAVE GOOD LUCK WITH
THE PERSON YOU THOUGHT OF!

My score was 56, what was yours?

Thank you....

All for your thoughts and prayers, my brothers and sister are doing alright and getting on with all that needs to be done.
Travel plans and paper work and  the un pleasant business part of it it all.
Carl had been sick for some time so they knew it was just a matter of time, but because he was not my father and I didn't really know him, I was not kept in the loop, so yes I was surprised and saddened at the loss of life, but life will get back to normal a lot quicker for me then it will for them all I really can do is be there if there is anything they need.
 
Tessa is doing good her stomach hasn't bothered her in a little while and the ear infection is clearing up, it was a bit of a close call though, because she wasn't telling me that her ear hurt, the infection almost took her hearing in that ear!
I was so angery with her for not telling me but, she said she didn't want to worry me with yet another illness and she thought it would go away....GRRR KIDS!
Here's a tip for you....
If your kids have iPODs, MP3 players or whatever that they listen to wth ear buds, make sure they use BOTH ear buds other wise the uneven pressure on the ear drum will cause problems, or even better yet...thow away the ear buds and get them real earphones that DON'T go in the ear.
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend.
(((Hugs)))
Cindy 
 
END OF THE DAY
 
Don't really have anything to say but, I'm going to a play tomarrow it should be a lot of fun.....No I'm not going on a date with the bus driver. It's a girls day out, although we are taking the bus so I might see him anyway..lol!
Should be a nice break, things have been crazy around here, and doesn't look like it is going to slow down any time soon.
Anyone want to join me in a bottle of wine? Or better yet a vat!
2月15日

For My Brothers and Sister

Just received some sad news:
I have said before I have a lot of brothers and sisters,
Well as of 8pm last night the Father of my 4 oldest siblings passed away....My heart is heavy for my Brothers and Sister for they of course love their Father as much as I did/do mine....
 
May your Journey be peaceful Carl.....you will be missed.

Feb 15

After re-reading my last post I have decided to leave the song on for a bit, just because it isn't Valentine's Day anymore I still think you should at least once a day, grab the one you love and take a spin around the room weather it be your favorite teddy bear, your squirming 5 year old (just don't drop him or her on on their head), and hey! If you don't have any of those, a mop or broom works too.....
Dancing is good for the soul, it doesn't matter if you think you can't, everyone can....Just let the music wash over you and move.
(((HUGS)))
Cindy
 
2月14日

FEB 14

 
When A Rose Blooms... With this beautiful rose tell your loved one how much he/ she is thought about.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY
ALL!
I'm watching 2 of the kids, (the brother and sister) I used to look after for the rest of the week, even though the oldest is old enough to watch the younger one, she is having a hard time controling the boy.
So after the second day in a row that she has come to my door asking for help with the boy the Mother and I decided it would be best that they come to my house in the mornings for a bit.
I honestly believe that it is just too much for the older one, the boy is a handful.That and the fact the mother believes he can do no wrong, makes it hard on the girl to do what she needs to do, so for the rest of the week, maybe longer, I'm going to watch them hopfully give the girl a bit of a break.
I can already see the girl relaxing a bit.
I'm not charging the mother, I'm doing it to help the older child.
Have a wonderful day all!
(((Hugs)))
Cindy
~p.s.~
Take a good listen to the song playing I think it a perfect Valentine's Day song.
So take that special someone in your arms and have a slow dance around the livingroom.....
Remember to watch out for the toys the kids forgot to pick up.... :)
2月13日

I'm going to try,

And clear this up.....
I can't in all fairness name names but I want to let everyone know when I said there was someone snubbing me I had one person in mind, they used to come here and leave comments all the time and I would leave comments on their space and up until a couple of days ago I was still commenting on their space without a thought of them not commenting back, I completly understand not having time to get to every body, or even not having anything to say on a particular subject....But what bothered me and to be honest I DO feel a little childish about letting it bother me, is the fact that we have a lot of the same blog friends and this person is commenting on thier spaces, even going as far to comment about my comments but doesn't have the decancy to come right out and tell me that I have offended them in some way....
Like I said I feel sort of silly to let this bother me, but it does and I felt I had to say something....Because my friends here on spaces mean a lot too me, you people have been a great source of comfort, support and laughter to me when I need it the most. I really don't know what I would have done this past year if I didn't have you guys and gals to spill my guts to every day....
Love ya all
(((Hugs)))
Cindy
2月12日

Bits and Pieces 2

I went over to my Mother's to see Tessa, and she is doing fine.
Yes it is frustrating that she is getting sick all the time but it is all part and parcel of the same thing, the stomach problem has weakened her immunity so she catches colds very easily, and you know what schools are like, they are nothing more then germ breeding grounds.
A little while ago I wrote about the over night boy/girl party and how Tessa and her friend were pulling the "If Kay's Dad says she can go can I?" thing, I felt quite safe in the fact that Kay's Dad would say No...Well Kay has been working on her Dad for the the last few weeks, and the stupid fool CAVED! So now I have both girls bugging the hell out of me!
Even if they had more than 3 days to work on me, my answer would still be "I don't think it's appropriate and you will not be staying the night, and if you don't stop bugging me you won't be going at all!" MOTHER HAS SPOKEN!
Well that's it for me tonight, I did want to talk about a couple of other things but I'm too tired to do the subjects justice.....
So Good night
(((Hugs)))
Cindy

Bits and Pieces

To start with I'm sorry I am not accepting any more friends requests from people who I have not seen around spaces, I'm having a hard enough time keeping up with the friends I already have and for those I haven't been around to see in a while I'm sorry, I do truly appreciate you coming by and leaving comments, and I will do my best to come and say hi as soon as I can.
As for the one or two of you that are actually snubbing me.....I wish you all the best and take care, and be rest asured I will not be visiting your spaces again.
Now that piece of nasty busines is done....
The Bus driver called last night to say that he had a good time the other night, we will be going out again some time next week, not sure when as I may have to go to Calgary to help a friend with a sad situation with his Mother.
He wants to go there and see what he can do for her there, but he may end up having to bring her back here and that's where I come in he'll need someone to help him care for her on the trip back.
Tessa has been at my Mother's for the last few days, she goes there most Saturdays so she doesn't have to get up early Sunday to make it to Drill Team practice, it's a lot closer to my Mother's place then it is to here so that in it's self is not unusual, but she didn't go to practice this week she ended up going to the Doctor's instead, which is also sadly starting not to be that unusual....Tessa has been fighting a pretty nasty cold and has been doing alright but now she has a bad ear infection, it is the first one she's had since she got her tonsils out and let me tell you she is one ticked off little tadpole!
She hates to miss anything to do with Cadets and she had to miss it this week, but she now has all the meds she needs to get better and she's staying at Grandma's to get spoiled with all the video games and movies she wants..LOL!
Mom just makes her stay in bed and eat chicken soup when she's sick but Grandma lets her play video games, so yeah she's staying at Grandma's. I will go over today to check on her, I know she's in good hands but I still want to see my girl, I really do miss her when she's gone!
Well I'm off to do some errands and to see my girl, I will try to visit around a little later.
Have a great day all!
(((hugs)))
Cindy