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3月29日 ~594~ Departure date is SETWe leave next Saturday morning......And I have NOTHING done! EEEEK! It's a good thing I do well under pressure....For the most part....LOL! CALIFORNIA HERE I COME!!!!!!!!!!! Are you ready for me?............LMAO! We will have a lab top with us (my sister's) but with Tessa having to use it to do homework I don't think I will have much time to use it. I'm going to bring a diary with me and try to write in it every night, then when I get this crappy thing fixed I will tell you all about it (in installments.) HAPPY SATURDAY!!!! 3月27日 ~593~ Okay. OKAY!Yes, the wheelchair is a good idea......But I don't HAVE to like it Okay? Okay. I really wish I had the money to fix this computer, it takes me FOREVER to write out a post and I can visit most of my friends but leaving a comment, well that's another story.....I'm sorry. The youngest boy isn't sick or at least he doesn't have the flu.....Thank God! School is back on the 31st again.....THANK GOD! I need my days back, like I said I have a TON to do before the trip and trying to get it done with these boys is all but impossible, I have tried to put a movie in and just let them watch it.....I ended up with a broken closet door, sat them down with books I ended up with shelves that were wall mounted, no longer on the wall, and oh yeah! No one had any idea what happened.....Yes they get bored very easily. I have come to dread the younger one's giggle, it almost always means there is something I have to clean up, fix or lecture about...Honestly I beginning to think I should charge TRIPLE for the week after they have spent a four day weekend with their Mother, I swear she feeds them sugar the whole time and then she dumps them on me to fix the damage. Even though I have really missed Tessa, I don't blame her for high tailing it to my Mother's for the past week. Have a great Friday all! 3月26日 ~592~ The Countdown Continues16 or 17 (depending on my sister) days until we leave....YAY! In that time I have to make sure Tessa gets some blood work done, her eye check up, and make sure all her shots are up to date. The only thing that won't require a sedative is the eye check up, she HATES needles and needs to be sedated to get them done, I'm not joking....It's HORRIBLE. Plus a mile long list of other things, all the while still watching The Brothers......OY! My Doctor is a traitor. Yup I'm mad at him because he is backing my sister, Mother and a few other people who want me to be in a wheelchair during the trip.... On the face of it I know it's a good idea but.......Have I mentioned how much I HATE wheelchairs? Plus the fact because of where the arthritis is it hurts more to sit then it does to walk. In other news; The younger brother is sick I think and I may have to beat his Mother..... He is a mixed child (half white, half black) and fairly dark skinned. So when he is pale it is CREEPY! Seeing a dark skinned child lose all colour is quite disturbing! I took one look at him today and said to his, " he better not have that flu, because if I get sick again before this trip I my have to hurt someone." She said "Oh no he's just tired." Ummmm, yeah we will see! Anyway I should get going and work on that list of things to do. Have a great day all! 3月23日 ~591~ My WeekendFriday night I went to sleep at 7 pm and woke up at 3 am, didn't get back to sleep until 11pm Saturday night. Saturday consisted of cleaning house, trying to get a nap (which didn't happen thanks to animals.) Also the nap didn't happen because Tessa has discovered "Dance Dance Revolution" and I just couldn't tell her not to play it because yes it IS a video game, BUT it is also a really good work out, (To play it you have to dance on a control pad.) So yeah I will give up a nap for her to get some excorsize. When the time came I got ready to go and meet the family for my niece Dana's Birthday dinner, it was her 20th birthday on Thursday....... I just realized something......The girl grandchildren in this family are SPOILED there are 3 girl and 6 boy grandkids. The girls however ALWAYS get at least 3 birthday celebrations sometimes more!.....It might have something to do with the fact that all but one of the boys are older then the girls. I don't know but that is how it is. Anyway, we met up for dinner. The food was great but the service was horrible so horrible in fact I came very close to making a rather large scene about it, but since my brother was the one paying the bill I settled for just telling the manger off. It all started with her anyway, when we first got there she told us that the only tables she could give us were two booths side by side....Well first off my brother (all 6'3" and 350 lbs of him) doesn't fit in a booth and second we didn't want to be separated like that, we pointed this out to her and she got snippy ans said "Well you should have made reservations." THAT got my brother ticked.....Which is really hard to do, he is the most even tempered person in the world and he will avoid a scene at all costs but this ticked him off because he HAD tried to make reservations on Monday but was told that they didn't take them. She looked at him like a second head had sprouted on his left shoulder. I said "Why don't we go to The Keg across the street, we got great service the last time." And we did. So good that I went back and gave our waitress a thank you card and praised her to the manger. My Brother said, "Dana isn't here yet, if the wait for another table isn't too long we will stay." I said, "Your too nice...." Dana and her friend got there we all had a drink and were shown our table. Waited FOREVER for our starters, one was forgotten but since our main meals were coming soon we let it go, good thing they took it off the bill. Like I said the food was great, almost worth the hassle. I think Dana's friend was a little stunned....LOL! Because even if you are warned our family get together's can be a little over whelming.....LMAO! They are loud and boudreies can get teetered on (but never crossed.) and you are more then likely to have a completely different meal then what you ordered. Everyone gets something different and shares, it is very common for people to switch meals completely. I ordered a Bilini(sp) basiclly a rum soaked peach slushy because I have never had one, well anyway I sitting there talking with my niece and her friend, they are telling me about their wild night at the Roxy, (here in Canada you are legal at 19.) I go to take a sip and my drink is GONE......I look over and there is my Mother Sucking back MY drink! This cracks up the whole table because one, my Mother doesn't drink and two I just shrugged my shoulders and snagged a passing waiter and ordered a Rye and ginger ale, (I wasn't really digging the rum anyway.) All in all it was a good night. We all ate too much almost drank too much....LOL! I learned last night. All the woman in my family are very much a like. We all (but my Mother) hate chocolate. We all (but my Mother) drink Rye and ginger ale. We all (but my Mother) like spicy food. We all (inclueding my Mother) have quick tempers. I hope everyone is having a WONDERFUL Easter! 3月21日 ~590~ Happy Easter WeekendI don't have any extra kids for FOUR whole days! woot woot! Then again I don't have Tessa either... She went to her Grandma's Wednesday night and I believe she's coming back Saturday, not really sure because our computer isn't working too well and Grandma's is a kick butt one, (what she needs one like that for, I don't know.) I may not see her for the rest of the break...LOL! It's Spring....Not that you'd know it around here by how cold it is still, yesterday was REALLY cold, I honestly thought I would wake up to some evil white stuff.......Very glad I didn't.. I have to say I'm happy March is almost over, although this year hasn't been as bad as it has been in the past, at least not for me. I know a couple of people that March has been quite nasty too, (((Mo)))) and (((Pen))) What is it about this month? It's like March comes in and kicks your butt for a while then leaves you to lick your wounds. Is it because it's tax season and everybody is just a little cranky? For me March has always brought some sort of sadness, heartache, or some other thing to make me dread the month....Silly I know but true. This year however it hasn't been that bad other then the normal stuff that goes on when you have a teenager...... If I had to choose something that is bashing my head in, I would say that it's...................I'm lonely...... GOD! That looks and sounds SO pathetic! There are people out there with REAL problems, and I'm sitting here whining about being lonely? Boy! Do I need to get a life! 3月19日 ~589~ Finally!I know when I'm leaving for my trip.....11th or 12th of April....23 or 24 days....... THE COUNTDOWN BEGINS! One Mother I work for as already pulled her son for the month of April, the last day I have the 2 brothers will be the 5 of April which is really good because that gives me time to do what I need to without having to drag them along. It's going to be a lot of fun........... I hope................... 3月17日 ~589~ Spring BreakSpring Break has started here. What I'm wondering is.....Where the heck IS Spring?!? It is still SO cold, today it rained and it felt more like sleet......I can't wait for California! Can you believe it? The trip is only 2 or 3 weeks a way, (first or second week of April, my sister hasn't made up her mind yet.) There is so much I have to do I don't know if that is going to be enough time.......Well it would be if I would quit getting distracted....LOL! Since I can still use my computer with Firefox I'm not going to take it in to get wiped until after the trip. Like I said at the start Spring break has started here, that means I have the boys full time......I may cry! The youngest boy, has really been a handful lately and he has started wetting himself again, I believe it is an attention getting thing.... Because I have been watching a friends baby a couple of days a week for the last couple and when ever the baby is here he starts wanting to be picked up and really slips back into old behaviors, that I have spent the last year getting him out of. When I first got him he was 6 but had the speech and comprehension of a 3 year old but, over the last year I have worked with him and he has shown real progress but, in the last month he has gone back to the baby talk and like I said wetting his pants, even though the bathroom is 2 feet from their play area (I arranged it that way because all 3 boys have had "Bathroom issues" at one point or another.) He has also picked up his older brother's habit of lying, while this shows that he his using his imagination and starting to think for himself, I can't let it go.... You see I have watched the older brother for 3 years, and the lying habit was already firmly ingrained, to this day when ever I ask the older one a question the first thing out of his mouth is a lie, I have told and shown him over and over again that the truth is always the best policy, I can't seem to break him of the habit. I have told him over and over again that if he's done something wrong depending on what it is he might get a lecture or a time out but if he lies about it the punishment will be longer and something he really doesn't like....It doesn't matter what I do I just can't break him of the habit....It's very frustrating! Anyway enough of that.... I'm beginning to think I REALLY need this trip, going somewhere I've never been doing things I've never done. It's almost too bad that I'm going with my sister and daughter.....LOL! I'm joking but it would be nice to be able to REALLY let loose and not be me for a little while.... 3月14日 ~588~ kind of worksMy computer is still on the fritz but, if I use firefox and not Internet Explorer I can still do what I need to do, I can also visit most of my friends on here, sadly there are some I can't. Tomorrow I'm going to the computer shop just up the street to see how much they will charge me to clean my hard drive. Hopefully it won't be too much. Life is as always around here....I have to say I am getting tired of watching these boys again or more like I'm tired of being stuck in the house. But, because of my hip getting a job outside the home isn't an option, although with the new bed it isn't as bad as it was, I still can't walk all that far without my cane.....I hate that! It makes me feel so OLD! But not as old as being told that I need a replacement.....(I almost cried). Funny part is, in the same breath as telling me I need a hip replacement the Dr. also said that they most likely won't do it because I'm too active and the replacement won't las as long as it should and they can only replace it once or twice then I'm out of luck....Nice choice huh? Sit and waste away in a chair but be mostly pain free. OR keep walking in pain and keep my freedom, decisions decisions! Oh! And the best part? I can't get an Ortho appointment for a year.....meh. Not happy. Really haven't been for a while now and I don't know how to fix that.... I'm going to sit in the corner and contemplate my navel. 3月12日 Computer crap outMy computer is messed up I need to get it looked, so will be off line for a while.....I don't know how long.
Take care all!
See you when I get back 3月11日 ~586~ Tessa UpdateThere really isn't much to tell, their conversation lasted all of 5 minutes. he was in New Brunswick(other side of the country) at the time.
And basically consisted of him complaining about how much traveling he's had to do and how sick he was, Tessa was polite and listened, but when she said that there was someone on the other line (she was talking to a friend of hers when his call came through.) and she just wanted to let them know she would call them back later he basically ended the call....With the promise that he would call her when he got back in to town on the 15th.
It about broke my heart (and believe me I will be having words with him about it!)
Is at one point in this short conversation Tessa tried to find something to talk about....
B.B.- "There is a lot of snow here."
Tessa- "Oh I love the snow, but my Mum hates it..LOL!"
B.B.- " I don't even know what I like anymore....."
Tessa- " I'm sorry you feel so bad..."
How sad is that?!?
I understand that this conversation couldn't have been an easy one for him but, he didn't have to be such a downer!
Tessa took it as he's tired and not feeling well. I took it as he's STILL just as big of a whiner as he used to be.
I already thought that after I talked to him but I thought he would have enough brains not to pull the " Oh woe is me!" act with Tessa.
Well now I guess we to have to wait and see how things go when he get back.
3月8日 ~585~ She did it!Tessa has been talking for MONTHS about doing it going back and forth as to weather she should or not.
Not sure what she would say and more then a little afraid of being rejected. (No matter how many times I told her that she wouldn't be rejected the fear was still there.)
Despite all that Thursday night she gathered her courage and asked me for her Father's phone number and called him......
This is a BIG, HUGE deal because they have never met.
She has always known his name and I have always answered any questions she asked open and honestly, and if I couldn't I told her that too.
Tessa unfortunately didn't get to speak to him, he is out of town but he did get the message and called today while she was at school and I spoke to him (joy of joys!)....LOL!
Actually it went quite well.
He wanted to speak to me before he spoke with her to test the waters so to speak, and was COMPLETLY FLOORED when I reminded him that she is 16...LOL!
We talked for about a hour, what I found really interesting is that he is afraid of the same things she is. that he won't measure up or be what she expects and all that.
I told him that Tessa isn't coming to him for anything other than to get to know him, she doesn't want money or a Father figure (well she does but she won't admit it.) Thankfully she is a realist and somewhat understands that it's not his place or right to try and be that for her at this time.
Anyway in the end he said he will call back this weekend and depending on how that goes he would like to take her out to dinner.
When Tessa got home I told her about call and the dinner plans, she's not too sure how she feels about that but, I have all the faith in world that she will figure it out and do what is best for her and of course I will be there to support and guide her as best I can.
3月4日 ~583~ BetterI am doing better, solid food is still not my friend but believe me I will not suffer if I go a couple more days on this liquid diet....LOL!
Tessa finally went to school yesterday after almost two weeks of being away, she was a little afraid she wouldn't be able to catch up but she has already made good head way in the work she missed.
On Friday , when I was at my worst our Doctor called because I missed my appointment and he was worried because my INR was now WAY too high and he needed to tell me not to take my meds that day, it was kind of funny because Tessa told him I now had this NASTY flu and I was sleeping and she wasn't going to wake me, they argued for a bit, in the end the Doc won and Tessa woke me and we talked for a while, he also told me that Tessa's iron levels were really low again......Well DUH! She had the flu! Every time she ate or drank ANYTHING she vomited.
I really wasn't pleased being woken up to be told something I already knew,(I had already guessed my INR was high by the bruises that had popped up all over my legs) Anyway we both have an appointment tomorrow to see him.
It was amazing to see all the kids in the ER with this flu, Tessa saw at least 3 schoolmates there, the saddest ones though were the little ones.
Only one out of the 3 boys I look after got it, one that can least afford to go without food for days.....He is such a bean pole!
Thankfully his Mother didn't expect me to look after him, and is staying home with him.
The other Mother on the other hand said if her son gets it he's staying here......I said "No way!" and she said that she couldn't miss work, and that it would be my fault yadda, yadda.
I reminded her that I told her as soon as Tessa got sick, and that it was her choice (the Mother's, not Tessa's) not to find another sitter for the duration, and I also reminded her that she had sick days and vacation days that she could use to stay home and take care of her son IF indeed get sick.
And I pointed out the fact that if he was in a Daycare center he wouldn't be allowed to go for as long as he was sick.
She didn't like that, but too bad I'm not going to allow Tessa or myself to get that sick again, not if I can help it.
I tell ya, I am so glad Tessa can take her iron pills again!
When she goes without them for any length of time she becomes UNBAREABLE! The mood swings come fast and furious and personality change is like night and day!
But as soon as she is on the iron she becomes the the funny, sarcasic, goofy girl we all know and love!
Thanks for all the well wishes.
Take care all!
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